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None of the clubs in Swingers club richmond were open nights other than Friday and Saturday and for most of them their Fridays seemed to be just going through the motions.
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I knew from reading the emails that there was a market out there that no one else was reaching.
I told Jen, Matt and Sara that we were going to host a bi night in early February on a Sunday afternoon. They looked at me like I was crazy. I picked Sunday, because in my misguided research, I thought that bi meant gay.
So I conflated a bi Sex mature woman Moran Wyoming with the bathhouse scene and their busiest time Swingers club richmond Sunday afternoon. I could not have been more wrong. I advertised mostly on Gay sites again showing my Swingers club richmond of understanding and got a ton of replies.
A lot of men who replied said that if there were any women on the premises, they would turn around and walk out.
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These bi-guys are pretty militant. So Swingers club richmond the afternoon of our first event, we had an all-male staff except for Jen and Sara who were supposed to stay hidden in the background. But instead of throngs of guys we only had 6 single men show up and they all sat at opposite corners of the club.
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Moreover it fit perfectly with our philosophy that we wanted to be a club which was open to everyone. It took us a few months to get the formula down, but bi nights have become one of our signature events. That is not to say that bi nights have not caused us problems. They could not be comfortable having sex at a Swingers club richmond that allowed bisexuality even if it was limited to Sunday nights and they were Saturday couples.
But all things considered I would do it again in a heartbeat. Opening our club up to a wider swath of people has made our club and our members so much more interesting. Should Single guys be allowed on Friday Night? Six years ago this was an ongoing and hotly contested debate between Jen, Matt, Sara and me. We opened as a couples-only club and by the end of our first year Saturday nights had become very successful.
Why screw around with the mix? Our decision to allow single men turned on two things. First, was our success with bi-nights.
Swingers club richmond guys were allowed to come in on those nights and the guys that we got were great. They were well dressed, respectful and really a pleasure to have at the club.
Our preconceived notion of problem single males went out the window once we had done several months of bi nights. Second, we needed Swingers club richmond diversify. Couples who are only Muscle female fuck philadelphia for other couples are a large group Swingers club richmond not enough to fill a Friday and Saturday night.
We had experimented with many different formulas and promotions to kick-start Friday. We did speed dating, Karaoke, two couples for the price of one and a complimentary romantic dinner at the club.
None of those worked. Rchmond only thing that brought customers in was to radically reduce the admission price.
But the trade-off was that we would have an ok Friday Swingers club richmond a lousy Saturday. We were competing against ourselves. I Swingers club richmond ready to make the switch but rochmond others were not. He and Sara promoted it everywhere for an entire week, SSwingers we had another mediocre night.
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Six years later we average over people on Friday evenings. There is always a lot of single guy bashing but the reality is that the VAST majority of them are decent guys.
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We made a conscious decision a long time ago to try to incorporate single men into the social network of the club. I know this is contrary to the policy of most clubs but we thought that if they were going to come to the club, whey not have them take an interest in the club doing well? We have many single guys who help out as tour guides, clean up, towel volunteers, bar backs and anything else that the club needs.
My feeling is that Swingers club richmond who Swingers club richmond that they are actively a part of something are much more likely to embrace the culture that we promote. How can you determine how someone will act in a Swingers club richmond minute Ladies seeking real sex Fort Detrick conversation or by doing a quick once-over at the door?
Swingers club richmond whole process just rubbed me the wrong way. The presumption at the club is that when you walk in the door, you are a mature, well-behaved adult and entitled to be treated as such. If you rebut that presumption, you can no longer be a member of our club and you will be asked to leave. That goes for single guys, couples and single women.
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We have found that Swingers club richmond are far fewer confrontations with female monitors than male. I Swingers club richmond never looked back on our decision 6 years ago.
We are a more diverse and interesting club. Other clubs have determined to not allow single males and I am sure that works for them, but for us it was a very positive change.
Almost 3 years after Jen and I opened the club and nearly 5 years after we started working on it, she and I split up.
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