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J - I think you need to realize that although men and women often look for similar values to settle down, they are biologically different and experience different attraction cues. For men, those are related to beauty and for women, the are related to power. Women possess more of these attraction cues in their 20s, men have more of them after 30 and further down the line. You might be dismissing something men yourself, but the reality is that most women don't.
And this blog, like most blogs giving women dating advice, has to base itself on reality, not wishful thinking or exceptions to the rule. At least if women are to gain something from it. Sometimes men insist on paying for the dates and my persistent refusal would seem rude. I always offer to pay and back off when rejected. I am most comfortable with taking turns, i. However, older men seem to have this big-brother mentality, that they ought to treat you like a younger sister and take care of you and pay for everything.
I dated several guys like that, the bigger the age gap, the less likely he would let me pay. I wasn't digging for gold, I just enjoy the conversation a lot more than with guys my own age or younger. Anon feb 18, 5: I've noticed this with older men too, and it can be really weird when he treats you like a little sister but you know he wants to boink you at the same time.
I have to admit to being old-fashioned. I do prefer for the man to pay on the first date any more isn't necessary unless it's his thing. I was taught that that is how a gentleman acts and I'm put off by any man who doesn't do that. So yeah, call me old-fashioned. If a man I date has a different opinion to me then it's obviously a clash of values.
I did have a rich boyfriend and was a bit ticked off that he didn't pay for me so much. Wait, let me explain. It's not because I wanted a chunk of his wallet. It's because he'd deliberately avoid making romantic gestures that would incur a cost because he had some complex about all women being golddiggers. Basically, he was hedging his bets. I actually spent more money on him in the relationship despite me being a bit of a poor sod who was too hopelessly besotted.
I don't like keeping score but clearly that arrangement didn't work. I also like the idea of an older guy having dated a wider variety of women and so the chances of him knowing what's important to him in a relationship are higher, " just wanted to add that a man who "dated a wider variety of women" is NOT necessarily more likely to know "what's important to him in a relationship.
Whereas the man who "just knows" that a woman is the one for him without having had to date "a variety of women," just seems like a man who would be more willing to commit and remain faithful. There's also a major advantage of him having less baggage, and the woman he's married to not having to worry about being compared to all the other women he's been previously with. The stats linked earlier Black pussy invest Huntsville show that most marriages have an age gap of years.
Even years ago the average age difference wasn't more than that. Im a 23 year old and while I do find older men attractive its not something I would seek right now, personally. Id much rather marry a guy years older and look forward to him becoming a silver fox.
There is a world of difference between a 20 and 30 year old, but Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr difference between, say, a 35 and 45 year old are less pronounced. I am somewhat of an "old soul". When one comes up to me I automatically filter them out as being mainly interested in sex or arm candy. Even though most guys years older than me will still be mostly interested in sex I at least know that there is a higher likelihood of them being attracted to me on a personal level, outside of physical attraction.
If the large age gap works for you thats great and I wish you the best of luck. However, given the statistical evidence it isnt common nor is it something most women are into, unless the man in question is exceptional and has an overabundance of a specific characteristic she is attracted to ie power, fame, money, wisdom, dentures: Why not have more confidence that your personality might be appealing to a wider range of men?
It sounds like feminist propaganda trying to convince men and women that they can't have enough in common with each other if there's a larger age gap. How do they know? Maybe the odds are that they won't have as much in common but if both find each other attractive and like each other's personality then go for it.
Our personalities are a culmination of our biology, upbringing, and cultural references; the latter two being influence by the generation we grew up with. Chances Still in need of a bj a Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr who is closer to my age will be more compatible with me in that regard.
Thats just a fact. Thats not to say there are no 35 yr olds that would be compatible but generally speaking a 27 yr old would be a better fit. This is not the result feminist bougie women, its a preference women have for men who are slightly older than themselves, exceptions notwithstanding. I certainly don't dispute the average age diff.
I'm not saying young women should get with older men, just that if that younger woman and Looking for thats special love man want to and are compatible then more power to them. Human are living longer and longer while taking less care of themselves. I have no desire to be stuck playing nurse to my husband while I'm still wanting to travel Europe in my retirement.
That is a large reason why I cap my upper age limit to about 7 years. Not only that, marriage is more than just about looks and money. It is also finding someone who is my best friend. If you have a generation gap, that is less likely to be the case.
Not to mention the "life experience" of someone that much older than me will probably have. I want Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr to experience life with me, not watch as I experience it. And for those seeking much younger mates because they are more attractive? A word of caution if you will - someone who is in their mid to early twenties is still growing and learning about themselves. Who they are now, is not who they will be 10 years from now. Yes, everyone changes through time, but not nearly as much as in our youth.
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Maybe I wouldn't be single today. I started to really care about my looks at 28, and sadly, I think it is too little too late.
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True story, my hair dresser is Korean and said to me, "When you finally get a boyfriend, come back here and I'll put highlights in your hair. The lady who did my hair was American and I asked her about highlights. She said, "Yeah, you should get them, it will help you get Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr boyfriend. And, although I don't Sexy Aurillac boy here 9ins with what you are saying about age, I'm not talking about living 10 to 15 years alone because your husband passed on.
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I see it with my own parent's who are falling apart in their mid's. I see it with my 80 year old grandma who has to be taken care of like an infant. Maybe it is more an issue of health and how important it is for you to try to live healthy than age, but I rather be single and be able to live for myself than married to someone I have to live for before they can't do it themselves.
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Find someone you're mutually in love with and be happy as long as you can and take care of each other when that time comes. J, you have good points. I never thought of that Why do you say it's too late for you in the looks department?
Not speaking about J but too much tanning, drinking or drugs or other miscare can age a woman and there is little to do once the ageing has set in. I'm going to stop drinking. After drinking at university, I can tell it's aged me even if only a little bit. The tanning is the worst though. Luckily I don't really tan because I live in Scotland but Sefking still go out with sunblock every day without fail in order to block the UVA rays.
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That's an opinion I share with the majority of my girl friends. And even if older guys appear to be be more mature and stable, they sometimes have others issues that makes them not so desirable bitterness, not so fun Assuming for argument's sake that you are hot then that makes you a small minority of women and yes, you can have your pick of many men though not all.
What advice would you give the average or ugly girl, though? I'm curious, are all your friends as hot or hotter than you? If so, then your advice isn't harmful really since you have so many men to choose from. But what about those who don't have so many. Don't you think that they would do well to expand their age range to up the number of good guys to choose from?
That likely would mean they the average and ugly girls should consider older as well, if they are 26 then a woman should consider a man into his mid 30's but possibly even a year or two younger if he has Looking for swingers act together, though it's likely that the slightly older guy will have his career more in place and be looking to marry.
Even hot girls should probably be willing to think upwards in age. Basically, if keeping a narrow age range works for you and you can easily find a great guy to marry or date then continue. But a lot of women complain that they can't find a good guy, Sheffield slut fucking, expand your age range a bit and see what you find.
In the end you don't have to go for the older guy but it probably makes sense to at least consider the possibility. I am not the poster above but I can answer that. I am 25 graduate student and fairly attractive.
I think the age range is a bit narrow, personally for me. But I don't think there is such a thing as 'ugly girl', though some have better features and Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr than others.
Before throwing in the towel to date whomever you can get. You must work on yourself first. At least try to get around your age if you have time In your Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr, I agree with your mentality, even though you should never let yourself go.
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She was being totally Seeking a sincere guy for a ltr. Also, I think your age range of men is reasonable, especially if you're not finding it too hard to find good guys to date.
The reason I had such a response to the word 'ugly' is because most woman are complacent to throw in the towel. Unfortunately, ugly in today's day and age refers to body over features, due to the obesity crisis in America. I have seen plenty of average looking woman, at best, get married over their overweight attractive friends simply because of a little effort. With all lfr resources out there to make anyone attractive, I have run across very few women that are beyond repair.
I work on myself all the time. And I think it is important for less attractive woman to realize this. No one grows up and maintains 'model status' with little effort. Not that I am 'model Looking for a weekly mistress, just ltrr an extreme. Granted I have my own issues to deal with, even with enough guys to date. Building your career tor a women foremost has its repercussions.
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Us guys hit on a lot of girls. The gap between girls that I'll ugy on vs girls that I'll commit to is massive. If that makes you feel better about yourself, you're like the guy that jumps at and does tricks for any sort of female attention. Be better than that.
I'm overweight myself and have been for a sinncere although I recently lost 20lbs. I still have another 20lbs to lose to look my best. After I read something in this blog about waiting to see which men are attracted to me, I decided that it was worth investing the hard work to put myself in a better position.
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And I believe that some men can sense if you're the type of woman who would jump at any attention, and use that to their advantage. I think your comment was very apt. Part of why some women say a lot of stuff like that is because of oneupmanship over who is the hottest. I know it sounds silly but it happens. Sometimes other women have tried to jeopardize my sicere with certain men by telling me "oh he's not really into you.
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I still don't understand why some women choose dincere run each other down. We are all beautiful in our own way. Lucy, some men will exaggerate their compliments to try and get in a woman's pants. So, watch what men do, not what they say. However, excessive compliments seems more like a chump move and so those guys probably aren't getting laid a lot unless they have a lot of charm and other attractive stuff going for them.
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Men can sincsre pretty quickly if a woman is a 5 or a 7 or a 9 in looks to him. Thanks for your response, HanSolo. Just to clarify that I'm definitely aware of that but I think it's a lot sincerre bother to say 'thank you' than to start outwardly scrutinising a comment. I generally don't like compliments like that because they feel very insincere and I don't want to be put on a pedestal or objecified.
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And I can't answer that for myself yet as I'm in a situation where Sedking meeting hardly any men. So there you go. I'd rather focus on my overall quality as a person than get tied down worrying about what I look like. Lucy I am about to totally launch into guy trying to solve your problem mode!!!! Not sure where sincee are but Lady wants casual sex Mullan you tried online dating? On POF, there are x as many men as women you can actually search and see sincwre many are returned in the area you're looking at and so even though there will be a lot of incompatible men there are likely to be a few that would be great guys.
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I value friendship more now than I did in my 20's. Do you guys consider fpr at all? Does your attractiveness for a woman increase the more you like her personality? It works that way for me. You can be a stud but if you're dumb, take a hike. Does being a '10' trump intelligence every time?
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