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I agree with your son that he doesn't have to go to college but that he needs to do something. Everyone should be able to support themselves without taking charity from their parents.

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But way too many others are not and will happily live in their parents' basements and play video games and take no responsibility for their lives. Parents who let that happen are failures, in my opinion. I think that it's time to make a plan with your grandson. Tell him that he has x amount of time to live at Mature woman looking in Ilanlak and be supported while he figures out how he's going to prepare himself for a job to support himself.

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He is an adult. He is living in ''your'' home and this is a privilege not a right. Charging him rent and requiring him wedkend work ''full'' time while he lives with you is quite appropriate. Many young people need the experience of working at something that might not be very enjoyable or financially lucrative 19 yr old male looking for weekend they decide that continuing their education might be a good idea. I applaude your perceptiveness. Our son decided he didn't want to go to even community college.

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I nagged and I pestered and I lost a lot of sleep worrying about what was to become of them, but in the end, it really was just a matter of time.

I am so proud of how hard my kids have worked to accomplish things that were so much easier for their friends, and I am so grateful that, unlike my own parents, I was able to give them help when they needed it. Mom of 3 awesome sons. We charged all of them modest rent--around what you're gr put it in savings for them so that when they moved out they had a sum useful for apartment deposits, etc.

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I respected my sons need for independance, though it was hard. As parents we have to let them make their own decisions and mistakes hopefully not too damaging and learn from their mistakes. If it's bad enough they'll come calling. Trust that it will get better, but might just take a little time. You're going through that awkward transition from parenting a child to being the parent of an adult.

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